Lately, I have been feeling overwhelmed, chaotic, unfocused, and “blah”. There are so many things I want to do, that I end up outright neglecting some areas of my life and completely forgetting about others. Life always seems more manageable with a plan though, right?
So today we had a little family meeting and I asked everyone to help me make a list of the five most important things I do (or can do) for them, the house, work and myself. We all spoke for Blythe, because her answer to almost everything right now is, “Nemo”.
For a little extra fun, I’d love for you to tell me: What are your Top 5 Priorities, from any facet of your life? THEN, to win something COOL, tell me who picked what as a favorite vegetable down below.
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I’m going to make each of these important things a priority, so that I can be a better Mother, Wife, and Self. Here we go.
Alison and Blythe:
1. Read a bedtime story
2. Play
3. Talk nice / have patience
4. Laugh
5. Work so we can have money to buy stuff at Target
Jeremy:
1. Let me know you appreciate what I do
2. Spend time with me + LOVIN’
3. Massages
4. Make work a priority
5. I like cold stuff to drink in the fridge
Me:
1. Eat Healthy
2. Exercise
3. Get plenty of sleep
4. Make time for the people I love
5. Make time for myself to be creative
House:
1. Laundry
2. Food – groceries & cooking
3. Dishes
4. Picking up / controlling clutter
5. Keep the floors clean (as clean as possible, anyway)
And then, because I’ve had to scrap pretty much every recipe I had accumulated over the last 15 years when we found out Blythe was allergic to corn and eggs, I asked everyone to tell me their favorite meal. For a little while, each week day will have a corresponding meal and I’ll expand our menu from there. On the weekends, we’ll wing it and/or have left overs.
Dinners:
1. Spaghetti
2. Caesar Chicken with noodles, peas and carrots
3. Chili with bread
4. Chicken Pot Pie
5. Stir fry with rice
Everyone named a favorite veggie:
1. Lima beans
2. Crunchy carrots
3. Peas & carrots
4. Edamame
5. Broccoli
And a favorite fruit:
1. Strawberries
2. Cherries
3. Grapes
4. Melon (any)
5. Apples
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* edited to make the rules less confusing *
For the Contest
Assign each person to a veggie:
Jeremy
Andrea
Alison (4 1/2)
Blythe (15 months)
Veggies:
1. Lima beans
2. Crunchy carrots
3. Peas & carrots
4. Edamame
The first person to guess correctly wins the prize. If no one gets the correct combination, I’ll award the COOL PRIZE to the person with the most correct answers.
And don’t forget to tell me your top 5 priorities, if you want – but it’s not necessary to win.
6 replies on “Increments of Five and a Contest”
I. Am. So. Confused. Re-reading the rules… Saturday night fellow loser here. I’m giving this a shot. Even though I’m an idiot and have to keep re-reading the rules. Jeremy-4 Andrea-2 Alison-1 Blythe-3
Shoot I forgot to add priorities. I told you I was confused.
1. Understand rules before commenting.
2. Post in the daytime so people don’t think I’m a vampire.
3. Patience with my kids. But they don’t really deserve it.
4. Stop the sarcasm before someone runs over me with their car.
5. Complete the stuff I start. Look! I got to 5!
Jeremy-Edamame
Andrea-Lima Beans
Alison-Crunchy Carrots
Blythe-Peas and carrots
I’ll take a stab.
Jeremy: Peas and Carrots
Andrea: Edamame
Alison: Crunchy Carrots
Blythe: Lima Beans
And here’s my priorities right now:
1. Get my house cleaned out and organized
2. Really listen to my kids when they want to tell me something
3. Cook healthy meals
4. Start working out again
5. Try to spend some one on one time with each kid
What a great idea to sit down together and do this. I’d have to think about it a while to get it perfect, but for me I’d say:
1) Relax and slow down. Enjoy now.
2) Play with my kids more and hurry them less.
3) Give myself time to write (and not just blog posts)
4) Get back on track with cooking a few times a week. Chicken nuggets are overused in this house.
5) Make time for friends, old and new.
Blythe – peas and carrots
Jeremy – lima beans
Alison – crunchy carrots
Andrea – Edamame
Here are my top priorities (for the moment)
1. Patience – especially with the kids
2. Go for this freelance thing full force
3. Get back in shape – no more dough belly!
4. Take ‘me’ time without guilt
5. Spend time with hubby without the kids